greatest pain in life

Sometimes we walk through life,
Not even knowing where to go,
Without a destination, or knowing why,
Or with what kind of purpose...
We go through life, looking for something,
Though we don`t know what it is.
Suddenly along the way, we meet wonderful people,
"Those" who will change our lifes, in a way or another,
"Those" who will be there for us, to guide us in our
Way, "those" who will make life easier, just lending a
Hand, or a comforting shoulder to lean on...
Those people, who will always find a way to make us
Laugh, even when we see the world falling apart at our feet.
They will stand beside us, and will always be
Willing to cheer us up...
oh DUA
Thanks for being with me in the most troublesome parts
Of my life.
YOU were just what I was looking for,
I`m glad I found you...
I count on you; I hope you count on me....
From now on... I CALL YOU mine (meri pyari dua)

Its not always easy to know which path to follow,
Which decision to make,or what to do.
Life is series of new horizons, new hops,
New days, and changes that come to you.
And we all need some help with these things for time to time .
Remember these things: dream it. Do it and discover how special u r.
Be positive, for your attitude will affect the out come of many things.
Ask for help when u need it; seek the wisdom the world holds and hold on to it.
Make some one progress every single day.being. relieve. And become.
Don’t short change your qualities, your abilities, or any of the thing that’s r so unique about u.
Remember how precious life can be imagin. Invest the time it takes to reach out for your dreams; it will bring u happiness that no mony on earth can buy.
Don’t be afraid; no mountain is too big to climb if u do it at your own pace.
Whats the best thing to do ? that’s simple: Do your best
And every thing else will fall into place.

youth is not a time life-it is a state of mind ,it is atemper of the will, a quality of imagination, a vigor of the emotions, a predominance of courage over timidity, of appetite for adventure over love of ease.
Nobody grows old by merely living a number of years; people grow old only by deserting their ideals. Years wrinkle the skin, but to give up enthusiasm wrinkles the soul. Worry, doubt, self-distrust, fear and despair- these r the long, long year that bow the head and turn the growing spirit back to dust.
Whether seventy or sixteen, there is in every being’s heart the love of wonder, the sweet amazement at the stars and atarlike things and thoughts, the undaunted challenge of events, the unfailing childlike appetite for what next, and joy and game of life.
U r as young as ur faith, as old as ur doubt; as young as your self-confidence, as old as your fear, as young as your hope, as old as your despair.
So long as your heart receives messages of beauty, cheer, courage, grandeur and power from the earth, from man and from the infinite, so long u r young.
When the wires r all down and all the innermost core of your heart is covered with snows of pessimism and ice of cynicism, then u r grown old indeed and may Allah have mercy on your soul.

The road to the success is not straight there is a curve called failure
A loop called confusion speed bumps called friends
Red light called enemies caution lights called family..
You will have flats called jobs but if you have a spare called determination
An engine called perseverance insurance called fath…
You will have a driver named Allah
Hold on to the faith;
It is the source of bleaving that all things r possible.
It is the fiber and strength of confident soul.
Hold on to hope;
It banishes doubt and enables attitudes to be positive and cheerful.
Hold on to trust;
It is all the core of fruitful relationships that r secure and content.
Hold on to love;
It is life’s greatest gift of all, for it shares, cares, and gives meaning to life
Hold on to family and friends ;
They r the most important people in your life, and they make the world a better place .they r your roots and the beginning that u grew from;
They r the wine that that has grown through time to nourish u, help u on ur way , and always remain close by.
Hold on to all that u r; and all that u have learned, for these things and what make u unique. Don’t ignore what u feel , and what u believe is right and important; ur heart has a way of speaking louder than ur mind.
Hold on to ur dreams;
Achieve them diligently and honestly. Never take the easy way or surrender to deceit.
Remember others on ur way and take time to care for their needs.
Enjoy the beauty around u.
Have the courage to see things differently and clearly. Make the world a better place one day at a time , and don’t let go of important things that give meaning to your life
UMER BAJWA

It is a dame fact that suffering, hope pleasure r the three figures. They come forward and play their role separately in life of every man as companions and comforts.
Suffering is the same name of pain, misery, torture, the curse of God which can be listened through the wail of mother for her lost child, through the cry of a sick, through the protest of an animal being tortured, through the chirp of harmless bird before being shot down by a hunts man or can be seen through the struggle of a homeless and suffering is the Vain struggle of a man against the inevitable fate.
As a matter of fate, life is not a bed of roses and suffering I like a thorn which pierces deep into the existence. It inflicts its pain on men in guise of hope and pleasure . its haunts them and attempts definitely to snatch from them the very role key of their existence. The hop that live in the heart of a men . those, who give up their heart to the greedy hands of the suffering cease ti exist but those who determinedly pledge to keep possession of hope gradually fight against suffering and to such an extent that its repeated attacks fail to arouse in them the slightest stir of hopelessness or fear.
Dew drops look very beautiful and glitter like pearls in the sun shine as if they r the ornaments of morning. But as the sun sets and darkness prevail over the universe, the same dew drops look like tears of the evening wrapped in morning clothes. Similarly, life remains full of happiness as long as one continues to cherish high hopes. But when life is without hope, it loses its attraction and becomes trouble some as S-T Coleridge says.
“ when no hope is, life is warning
that only serves to make us grieves”
some times, it seems that man is just like a puppet in hands of fate. The powerful, icy and untouchable hands of fate bring heinous un pleasant effect of suffering on man , his soul and his being. “ if winter comes, can spring be far behind “
according to P_B shelly, there is always hope for mankind. Whatever, suffering, worries and hardships, humanity may have to undergo, ultimately, this dark period will end. Like nature, when in the autumn, things r destroyed, the seeds for future growth r also sown, in the same moment even the most depressing period blossom forth at some future date.
Pain and torture r side by side with joy , if man must collect the blooming flower during happiness, he must also tread on the thorns of agony as john Keats points out:
“ she dwells with beauty, beauty that must die
and joy, whose hand is ever at his lips”
melancholy is an essential part of beauty because it is from beauty that melancholy is born . any thing which is beautiful and produce pleasure, must have a ting of melancholy in it. No doubt , the relationship of melancholy and beauty seems to be a paradox. Infect, nothing is delightful in its pure form without being mixed with sadness.
While defining tragedy, Aristotle writes that function of tragedy is to arouse the emotion of pity and fear .
Suffering broaden the views and outlook of a man and it is God’s way to put his people to a test. Suffering cant be denied or overlooked in human life . it is therefore, appropriate to conclude that the happiness, hope and even survival of man lie in fact that , he should also accept all the suffering along with hope and pleasure as part and parcel of life. UMER BAJWA

the greatest pain in life is not to die but to be ignored--- to lose the person u love so much to another who does not care at all---- to have some one u care so much about throw a party and not tell u about it.
when ur favorite person on earth neglects to invite u to his graduation----to have people think that u dont care
the greatest pain in life is not to die----but to be forgotten---to be left in dust after another’s great achievement to never get a call from a friend, just saying “Hi”----when u show some one ur innermost thoughts and they laugh in ur face---for friends to always be to busy to console u when u need someone to lift ur spirits-----when it seems like the only person who cares about u, is ur own.
life is full of pain but does it ever get better?-----will people ever care about each other---and make time for those who r in need?----each of us has a part to play in this great show we call life----each of us has a duty to mankind to tell our friends we love them----If u do not care about ur friends u will not be punished----u will simply be ignored, forgotten as u have done to others----by UMER BAJWA